Hidden interfaces, last-seen pings, activity by subnet

- interfaces.exclude in steward.yaml (names or shell patterns) leaves
  interfaces out of GET /interfaces, the web UI's picker and
  'steward interface list'. Subnets on them are still served.
- With the ping check on, active leases are pinged every minute; a
  client that answers gets a last-seen time (leases.last_seen,
  migration 4). Not answering never takes a client offline.
- The activity log filters by subnet (--subnet, the Activity page,
  GET /events?subnet=).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

internal/config/config_test.go

@@ -34,6 +34,7 @@ func TestErrors(t *testing.T) {
 		"{tls: {cert_file: /a, key_file: /b, acme: {domain: d.example.com}}, jarl: {server: https://j, token: x}}": "can't both",
 		"{tls: {acme: {domain: '*.example.com'}}, jarl: {server: https://j, token: x}}":                            "full name",
 		"{tls: {acme: {domain: d.example.com, directory: http://x}}, jarl: {server: https://j, token: x}}":         "https://",
+		"interfaces: {exclude: ['eth[']}": "interfaces.exclude",
 	}
 	for yml, want := range cases {
 		path := filepath.Join(t.TempDir(), "s.yaml")