Connections, "every packet" rules, and a packet tracer

- Connections: the kernel's tracked connections, read and closed over
  ctnetlink (internal/conntrack, raw netlink like the drop log), with
  their NAT and TCP state; closing one makes the rules check its next
  packet again (GET /connections, POST /connections/close; hc
  connections; Traffic → Connections).
- Rules can check every packet (every_packet, --every-packet): before
  established connections are accepted, so a drop or reject also stops
  connections already open. They can't accept.
- A packet tracer (internal/trace): a table of its own, inet
  housecarl-trace, marks the packets a filter picks, `nft monitor trace`
  reports every rule and policy they meet in every table, and the tracer
  names what accepted or dropped them, Housecarl's rules by name (POST,
  GET, DELETE /trace; hc trace; Traffic → Trace). One trace at a time,
  at most 200 packets and 20 a second; the table goes when it ends.

e2e: 157 checks, among them an upload a normal block doesn't stop and an
every-packet one does, and a trace naming the blocking rule.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

cmd/housecarld/main.go

@@ -26,6 +26,7 @@ import (
 	"housecarl/internal/auth"
 	"housecarl/internal/certs"
 	"housecarl/internal/config"
+	"housecarl/internal/conntrack"
 	"housecarl/internal/engine"
 	"housecarl/internal/hostif"
 	"housecarl/internal/jarl"
@@ -35,6 +36,7 @@ import (
 	"housecarl/internal/render"
 	"housecarl/internal/server"
 	"housecarl/internal/store"
+	"housecarl/internal/trace"
 	"housecarl/internal/validate"
 	"housecarl/internal/version"
 	"housecarl/internal/web"
@@ -195,6 +197,9 @@ func serveCmd() *cobra.Command {
 			}
 			go nflog.Listen(ctx, render.LogGroup, a.log, srv.LogPacket)
 			go srv.RunQuotas(ctx)
+			srv.SetConntrack(conntrack.Client{})
+			// A trace left behind by a crash.
+			fw.DeleteTable(ctx, "inet", trace.Table)
 			hup := make(chan os.Signal, 1)
 			signal.Notify(hup, syscall.SIGHUP)
 			go func() {