Connections, "every packet" rules, and a packet tracer

- Connections: the kernel's tracked connections, read and closed over
  ctnetlink (internal/conntrack, raw netlink like the drop log), with
  their NAT and TCP state; closing one makes the rules check its next
  packet again (GET /connections, POST /connections/close; hc
  connections; Traffic → Connections).
- Rules can check every packet (every_packet, --every-packet): before
  established connections are accepted, so a drop or reject also stops
  connections already open. They can't accept.
- A packet tracer (internal/trace): a table of its own, inet
  housecarl-trace, marks the packets a filter picks, `nft monitor trace`
  reports every rule and policy they meet in every table, and the tracer
  names what accepted or dropped them, Housecarl's rules by name (POST,
  GET, DELETE /trace; hc trace; Traffic → Trace). One trace at a time,
  at most 200 packets and 20 a second; the table goes when it ends.

e2e: 157 checks, among them an upload a normal block doesn't stop and an
every-packet one does, and a trace naming the blocking rule.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

docs/permissions.md

@@ -7,9 +7,9 @@ else gets **grants**, `resource:access`:
 
 | Resource | read | write |
 |---|---|---|
-| `config` | settings, zones, sets, services, rules, NAT, the ruleset, history, interfaces, probation, changesets (the web UI shows the forms locked) | change them, stage and apply changesets (your own, or anyone's for administrators), undo, import, confirm and roll back |
+| `config` | settings, zones, sets, services, rules, NAT, the ruleset, history, interfaces, probation, changesets (the web UI shows the forms locked) | change them, stage and apply changesets (your own, or anyone's for administrators), undo, import, confirm and roll back; close connections; start and stop traces |
 | `sets` | dynamic sets' entries | add and remove entries |
-| `log` | hit counters and the log | – |
+| `log` | hit counters, the log, connections, traces | – |
 | `audit` | the audit log | – |
 | `*` | all of the above | |